A rather off-beat look on sex?

     Whoopsidoopsie, another celebrity facing a twenty year old grievance. Touching another person, probably a woman, sexually? Wow, stone the crows. Really? Open zip showing the naughty innards? Adjusting a lady’s bra straps? OK, a woman came forward telling everyone for years how she felt violated by this horrible man. Twenty years? Good Lord, a long time to keep your mouth shut I’d say. Let me say first and foremost I don’t agree with wokery. I also don’t agree with these sexual actions. It is stupid, silly and dehumanises people, it does leave those who had to endure it in a bad way. Racism also, and tell exactly what that is? Bearing in mind I believe humanity is one animal, so there are no races. So, this lady has now decided to complain. Why not, it gets you in the spotlight once more., rightly or wrongly. The problem is things happened in the past which were, let’s say, condoned or approved even. People like rock musicians mostly had women throwing themselves at them. It was well known and written off by saying, “What do you expect?” Big celebrities started to act out their fantasies, perhaps out of stress of the job or boredom. Remember, DJ Saville? Yes, men mostly but there were women also. You cannot really write off these things by launching court proceedings after a long time has passed. When I was a young whipper snapper, I along with other boys used to roam the Red Light district. It wasn’t called a district then, it was just called ‘De Walletjes’, loosely translated as “The Ramparts”. These were the very old houses aligned at the side of two or maybe three of the canals in the centre of the old town. What we were gossiping about being 10 years old or thereabouts, what was happening there.

    We knew about the men, usually the older ones, going in, we knew what the ladies were doing, what they were doing. It was, Oooh and Aaah, wink, wink. Yep at 10 years old. But did it mentally harm me? Well, I didn’t resort to drugs, nor did I started to touch every girl I met later, or raping women. I just lived a normal life, found a job and married the love of my life and that marriage is still going strong. So, what about it. Do I now want to take to court the Amsterdam Council (Burgemeester and Wethouders) of that time because they have ruined my mental health? Why bother. People have to start understanding that sex in all its colours, and yes some of it is black, is just part of the animal kingdom. Just as well I am no spider, the lady spiders eat their lovers after a lovely mating. Damn it, am I missing something here, I better watch out just in case. 

    The one thing that needs looking at is how society shapes our attitudes. For instance it is well-known that overpopulation brings on things like sexual misdemeanors amongst other depravities. Perhaps it is time to look at how we have to deal with that now and for the future. Rather than what we hear now coming from that den of depravity, Westminster, a hidden message that wokery is OK and all white men are monsters and all women are saints. But as it is who listens to Westminster anyway? These are people who have less idea about sex than anyone else. Mind you, they haven’t the time anyway. Having to make very important decisions about how to wrench the last penny out of our pockets. Perhaps we ought to look at how many times they have been to Amsterdam? In the meantime I am agog watching a MP crossing her legs so that I have had to have therapy. Can I charge her the cost? I am greatly disturbed by it, still. Perhaps I'll have a chat tomorrow with the Chief Constable of the South Wales Constabulary.